MANformation BLOG

Wednesday, December 16, 2009

Give Up Your Need for Approval, Start Getting What You Want, and Make Your MANformation

By Skip La Cour
Success and Leadership Coach
Creator of the MANformation Personal Development Program for Men

Get out of “the middle” and earn RESPECT from other people.

Most people seek love, approval, and validation from other people to some extent. That's just being a human being. However, some people NEED approval more than others do.

How about you?

Understanding this common element in human nature and how it affects your relationships with other people can either work for you—or against you. It all depends on how you use this powerful information.

important organizing principle to becoming a powerful, influential, and charismatic Alpha male is to either stop needing approval from other people—or do an awesome job of giving them the impression that you don't need it.

The Alpha male needs approval less than the other people in his group—or reveals that he needs it far less than the other people in his group.

There is a saying that goes “Nice guys don't finish last. Pleasers do.”

You simply can't aggressively go for what you really want in life with 100 percent focus, effort, and enthusiasm—while being a "nice guy" who desperately tries to please other people at the same time. It just doesn't work.

Why?

You will end up pleasing no one. You will end up "in the middle.” I suggest that you start viewing being in the middle as horrible and extremely ineffective place to be.

You will never make yourself happy and you will never make the people you are trying so hard to please happy either.

To make matters ever worse, you will never be RESPECTED when you flounder in the middle. And, that's a heck of a lot of effort to exert when all it earns is a lack of respect from other people.

Take a stand. Pick one side or the other with certainty and confidence. Other people will appreciate your decisiveness. You'll discover that other people will adjust to your way of thinking without much of a challenge when you do.

Have the courage to just SAY it.

Have the courage to just DO it.

Have the courage to just BE it.

Start conditioning other people to live in your "reality."

Trust yourself. Trust that other people are fair and rational.

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Do you want to learn MORE about the qualities, characteristics, and actions of POWERFUL ALPHA MALES and put your MANformation Into OVERDRIVE!
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Invest NOW in Skip La Cour's. . .

"The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader" Audio Seminar Course

Get the MP3 Sound Files and Session Workbook PDF Files Emailed to You NOW and Begin Your "MANformation" TODAY!

Become the MAN you really want to be and get all the options in life that you really want! This course is 11 hours and 30 minutes of POWERFUL, LIFE-CHANGING Alpha LEADERSHIP strategies. Get the mp3 sound files and the Session Workbook pdf files emailed to you today.

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“Skip La Cour's messages in ‘The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader' are insightful, poignant, and thought provoking. I find myself listening to each session multiple times for fear of missing something and the internal desire to drive home these life-changing concepts. The first session alone was worth the price of admission!”

Greg Phelps, CFP, CLU, AAMS Las Vegas, NV

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Your investment is only $99.97

Get the files emailed to you NOW and begin your "MANformation" TODAY!

Click HERE to order

Click HERE for more information

"The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader" Audio Seminar Course Outline

Why "Nice Guys" Finish Last Session One (1 hour; 57 minutes)

The reason why you are not getting what you want in life-at the level you really want-may be in how you are defining the word "nice" in critical situations in your life. Alpha Leaders interpret being "nice" as mature, productive MEN. Conversely, Passive Followers who struggle to get what they want in life still think and act like the obedient little BOYS that they were expected to be when they were young.

Learn seventeen (17) of the most-insightful SPECIFIC differences in the way an Alpha Leader interprets being "nice" and "fair" compared to less-dominant men and Passive Followers. Adopt this Alpha Leader mindset, even the playing field, and FINALLY begin to win at the level you want to win.

The Body Language of a Powerful Alpha Leader Session Two (2 hours; 1 minute)

You can spot a powerful and charismatic Alpha Leader the moment he walks into a room, can't you? Why do you think it is so obvious to everyone that he is "the man" without knowing a thing about him?

Learn forty-three (43) of the most-intriguing, SPECIFIC things an Alpha Leader does with his body language, facial expressions, eye movements, and voice qualities in certain situations that transmits his strength, certainty, and confidence. Also, learn what he will NEVER do in other situations because doing so will take away from his powerful presence. Adopt this body language at the appropriate time and become more influential, persuasive, and charismatic to those people around you.

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“I am killing the New York City corporate world with the implementation of my MANformation strategies. Most of all I am empowered because I am aware. Thanks for your unique contribution to the few of us who want more."

Craig Ariano Richmond Hill, NY

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The Specific Influence, Persuasion, Charismatic Skills of an Alpha Leader Session Three (2 hours; 4 minutes)

The Alpha Leader has the amazing ability to get other people to willingly, joyfully, and enthusiastically help him get what he wants in his life. Learn twenty (20) of the most influential, persuasive, and charismatic skills of an Alpha Leader. Adopt these winning skills and you, too, will get people excited to help you get what YOU want.

The Structured Thoughts, Actions, and Lifestyle of a Powerful Alpha Leader Session Four (2 hours; 11 minutes)

Learn thirty-one (31) SPECIFIC ways an Alpha Leader structures his day and gets himself to follow through with what he knows he needs to do to get what he wants in life. Adopt this structure and you'll start leading your own life more effectively-and leading others too.

Goal-Setting Workshop - Alpha Leader-Style Session Five (1 hour; 58 minutes)

An Alpha Leader wins in life at an incredible level because of his outrageous standards, tremendously high expectations, and lofty goals. With what you've learned during the previous four Tele-Seminar sessions, you will NOW be ready to start going for what you REALLY want out of your life-instead of only what you've been settling for in the past. This goal-setting session will make you more assertive, create an Alpha Leader model to aspire toward, and get you to enthusiastically work toward it.

Successfully Integrating the Thoughts and Actions of an Alpha Leader Into Your Lifestyle Session Six (1 hours; 33 minutes)

Learn thirty-seven (37) of the most-effective, SPECIFIC strategies an Alpha Leader executes for CONTINUAL mental, emotional, psychological, and physical growth. When you execute these powerful and charismatic leadership strategies, you will enjoy CONSTANT IMPROVEMENT in your Alpha Leader thoughts and actions.

Your investment is only $99.97

Get the files emailed to you NOW and begin your "MANformation" TODAY!

Click HERE to order

Click HERE for more information

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“I was extremely impressed at all the information Skip La Cour has shared in ‘The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader' and the way in which it is presented! I will tell you that what Skip offers will have you really think about your perceptions of what an ‘Alpha Male' really is, allowing yourself new possibilities to grow and enrich your life, and the lives of those you love. I highly recommend this program to anyone looking to improve upon being the best MAN they can be in all aspects of your life!”

Tom Anthony Roehl Greenfield, WI

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Copyright 2009 Skip La Cour Consulting. All Rights Reserved.

MANformation and Alpha Edge are registered trademarks of Skip La Cour Consulting.

Wednesday, December 9, 2009

Powerful Voice Qualities and Language Patterns: How an Alpha Male SPEAKS

By Skip La Cour
Success and Leadership Coach
Creator of the MANformation Personal Development Program for Men

What is the REAL message you are communicating to others when you speak?

The way you communicate with other people has a tremendous impact on the level of success you are able to experience in your life. You are ALWAYS communicating your thoughts, perceptions, and ideas to other people—whether you realize it or not!

The Alpha male is extremely aware of the fact that the vast majority of the way he communicates to the world (Studies have shown up to 93%) is done through his body language, facial expressions, eye movements, and voice qualities--and NOT the words he uses.

Here are some key distinctions that a poised, confident, and powerful Alpha male does--and does not do--when he is SPEAKS:

• He understands that it's not only WHAT he says that's important—it's HOW he says it that's important

• His “default” speaking voice is low, controlled, authoritative, and powerful

• He speaks at the appropriate volume at all times

• He speaks up all the time—unless he consciously chooses to speak softly for effect

• He speaks clearly

• He enunciates his words perfectly

• He even OVER-enunciate his words because he realizes that, although it may sound slow and awkward to him at times, it sounds clear, confident, normal, and extremely effective to the people he is speaking to

• His diction is precise, sharp, and crisp

• He makes sure he is in a peak and appropriate emotional state before he speaks—and then delivers his message

• His body language is strong, powerful, and charismatic because he understands that it bolsters the message he delivers

• He chooses to speak at his own TIMETABLE—and no one else's

• He takes the time to think about what he says before he says it—and the process gets faster over time through constantly practice

• He demonstrates the voice qualities that he consciously chooses—and never what anyone expects of him (just because he knows that's what they expect)

• He understands that being emotionally neutral until the very last moment before expressing the appropriate emotion is extremely POWERFUL

• He understands how effective and powerful “Pregnant Pauses” in his speaking patterns can be—and he uses them often

• He uses interesting, clever, and appropriate stories, metaphors, and analogies when he speaks

• He takes advantage of the opportunity to inject humor into conversation every time it is appropriate

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Do you want to learn MORE about the qualities, characteristics, and actions of POWERFUL ALPHA MALES and put your MANformation Into OVERDRIVE!
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Invest NOW in Skip La Cour's. . .

"The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader" Audio Seminar Course

Tuesday, December 1, 2009

Powerful Body Language: How an Alpha Male SITS

By Skip La Cour

Success and Leadership Coach
Creator of the MANformation Personal Development Program for Men

What are you telling people about you when merely sitting in their presence?

The way you communicate with other people has a tremendous impact on the level of success you are able to experience in your life. You are ALWAYS communicating your thoughts, perceptions, and ideas to other people—whether you realize it or not!

The Alpha male is extremely aware of the fact that the vast majority of the way he communicates to the world (Studies have shown up to 93%) is done through his body language, facial expressions, eye movements, and voice qualities--and NOT the words he uses.

Here are some key distinctions that a poised, confident, and powerful Alpha male does--and does not do--when he is SITTING:

• He takes up as much space as humanly possible

• His torso is straight up (his butt isn't tucked in or pushed out)

• His shoulders are upright, back, and relaxed

• His neck is strong and powerful—yet loose—and is stretched as high as possible

• His head is always held high (like there is a string in the middle of his head pulling it to the ceiling)

• His chin up

• His head will always follow his EYES. His eyes will be are level or higher (never looking down)

• His head looks straight ahead—and never swivels around

• His eyes forward—never darting around

• He does NOT sway back and forth

• He does NOT lean to one side or the other

• His feet shoulder width apart or slightly wider

• If he does cross his legs, they are relaxed and send a message. This is a deliberate power play that shows minimal interest. He expects the person (or people) he is with to earn his approval, acceptance, or validation

• He does NOT cross his arms (unless he is intentionally sending a message)

• He does NOT put his hands in his pockets

• He does NOT hold anything in front of him (which gives the impression he is “protecting” himself)

• He always expose three (3) important areas of his body (throat, heart, crotch area)

• Having his arms spread out wide displays ultimate POWER!

• Anytime he can sit with his back against the wall and face out to the room—he does it!

Tip for Powerful Body Language when SITTING:

Remember the phrase, “Sit TALL, Sit PROUDLY, Sit like an ALPHA male!”

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Do you want to learn MORE about the qualities, characteristics, and actions of POWERFUL ALPHA MALES and put your MANformation Into OVERDRIVE!
====================================

Invest NOW in Skip La Cour's. . .

"The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader" Audio Seminar Course

Tuesday, November 24, 2009

Powerful Body Language: How an Alpha Male WALKS

By Skip La Cour
Success and Leadership Coach
Creator of the MANformation Personal Development Program for Men

What are you telling people about you when merely walking in their presence?

The way you communicate with other people has a tremendous impact on the level of success you are able to experience in your life. You are ALWAYS communicating your thoughts, perceptions, and ideas to other people—whether you realize it or not!

The Alpha male is extremely aware of the fact that the vast majority of the way he communicates to the world (Studies have shown up to 93%) is done through his body language, facial expressions, eye movements, and voice qualities--and NOT the words he uses.

Here are some key distinctions that a poised, confident, and powerful Alpha male does--and does not do--when he is WALKING:

• He walks in a slow and controlled rhythm

• He always operates on HIS own timetable when walking

• His strides are long—not short and choppy

• His torso is straight up (his butt isn't tucked in or pushed out)

• His shoulders are upright, back, and relaxed

• His neck is strong and powerful—yet loose—and is stretched as high as possible

• His head is always held high (like there is a string in the middle of his head pulling it to the ceiling)

• His head will always follow his EYES. His eyes are level or higher (never looking down)

• His head points straight ahead—and is never swiveling around

• His eyes are looking forward focused on the place he is going—and are never darting around

• His chin is up

Tip for Powerful Body Language when STANDING:

Remember the phrase, “Stand TALL, stand PROUD, stand ALPHA!”

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Do you want to learn MORE about the qualities, characteristics, and actions of POWERFUL ALPHA MALES and put your MANformation Into OVERDRIVE!
====================================

Invest in Skip La Cour's. . .

"The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader" Audio Seminar Course

Tuesday, November 17, 2009

Powerful Body Language: How an Alpha Male STANDS

By Skip La Cour
Success and Leadership Coach
Creator of the MANformation Personal Development Program for Men

What are you telling people about you when merely standing in their presence?

The way you communicate with other people has a tremendous impact on the level of success you are able to experience in your life. You are ALWAYS communicating your thoughts, perceptions, and ideas to other people—whether you realize it or not!

The Alpha male is extremely aware of the fact that the vast majority of the way he communicates to the world (Studies have shown up to 93%) is done through his body language, facial expressions, eye movements, and voice qualities--and NOT the words he uses.

Here are some key distinctions that a poised, confident, and powerful Alpha male does--and does not do--when he is STANDING:

• He takes up as much space as humanly possible

• His feet are shoulder width apart or slightly wider

• His torso is straight up (his butt isn't tucked in or pushed out)

• His shoulders are upright, back, and relaxed

• His neck is strong and powerful—yet loose—and is stretched as high as possible

• His head is always held high (like there is a string in the middle of his head pulling it to the ceiling)

• His head will always follow his EYES. His eyes are at eye-level or higher (never looking down)

• He does NOT sway back and forth

• He does NOT lean to one side or the other

• He does NOT cross his arms

• He does NOT put his hands in his pockets

• He does NOT hold anything in front of him in his hands (as if he is "protecting himself")

• He always exposes three (3) important areas of his body: groin, chest, and throat

• Having his hands behind his back when standing displays ultimate POWER!

• Anytime he can stand with his back against the wall and face out to the room—he does it!

Tip for Powerful Body Language when STANDING:

Remember the phrase, “Stand TALL, stand PROUD, stand ALPHA!”

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Do you want to learn MORE about the qualities, characteristics, and actions of POWERFUL ALPHA MALES and put your MANformation Into OVERDRIVE!
====================================

Invest in Skip La Cour's. . .

"The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader" Audio Seminar Course

Wednesday, November 11, 2009

Get the ALPHA EDGE! Start Building Your "Decision-Making Muscle"!

By Skip La Cour

Success and Leadership Coach
Creator of the MANformation Personal Development Program for Men

Practice and Exercise Making Decisions Quickly and Confidently

When deciding what he really wants in his life, the powerful Alpha male makes those decisions quickly and confidently. You too must learn to be quick and decisive when identifying what you really want as you strive to become a more effective leader.

You learn how to make decisions quickly and confidently by making as many of them as possible, any time you can. It doesn't matter how big or small the decisions are, just make as many of them as you can. If your superior at work asks you how an important and involved project is going to turn out, quickly and confidently tell him what you think. If you are eating at a restaurant with a group of friends and the waitress asks what you want to order, make your decision quickly and confidently. There is nothing more appealing and charismatic to other people than a man who can make decisions. And gentlemen, there is probably nothing more unappealing and unattractive than a man who belabors over the simplest decisions in life.

Just like building muscle through exercise in the gym, you will start building your “decision-making muscle” the more you exercise making decisions.

So, what if you jump into the decision-making mode and make some bad decisions? You can always make adjustments to your decisions or make entirely new decisions later if needed or when you have more information. You can't be afraid to make decisions if you want to become a more effective leader. And, you can never make any decisions based on fear. Any decision based on fear is the wrong decision.

This is another key difference between the Alpha male and less dominant and beta males. Less dominant and beta males will go through the process of collecting massive amounts of information before making any decision. They invest a lot of time into the process of making any decision. If a decision they've made doesn't turn out to be the best one, they take themselves through the entire involved process all over again, collecting even more information and investing even more valuable time. The more decisions you make, the greater your chances for more victories. In life, it is the number of victories that you experience—not a higher percent of victories compared to losses—that will eventually get you where you want to go.

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Put Your MANformation Into OVERDRIVE!
====================================

"The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader" Audio Seminar Course

Get the MP3 Sound Files and Session Workbook PDF Files Emailed to You NOW and Begin Your "MANformation" TODAY!

Become the MAN you really want to be and get all the options in life that you really want! This course is 11 hours and 30 minutes of POWERFUL, LIFE-CHANGING Alpha LEADERSHIP strategies. Get the mp3 sound files and the Session Workbook pdf files emailed to you today.

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“Skip La Cour's messages in ‘The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader' are insightful, poignant, and thought provoking. I find myself listening to each session multiple times for fear of missing something and the internal desire to drive home these life-changing concepts. The first session alone was worth the price of admission!”

Greg Phelps, CFP, CLU, AAMS Las Vegas, NV

===============================

Your investment is only $99.97

Get the files emailed to you NOW and begin your "MANformation" TODAY!

Click HERE to order

"The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader" Audio Seminar Course Outline

Why "Nice Guys" Finish Last Session One (1 hour; 57 minutes)

The reason why you are not getting what you want in life-at the level you really want-may be in how you are defining the word "nice" in critical situations in your life. Alpha Leaders interpret being "nice" as mature, productive MEN. Conversely, Passive Followers who struggle to get what they want in life still think and act like the obedient little BOYS that they were expected to be when they were young.

Learn seventeen (17) of the most-insightful SPECIFIC differences in the way an Alpha Leader interprets being "nice" and "fair" compared to less-dominant men and Passive Followers. Adopt this Alpha Leader mindset, even the playing field, and FINALLY begin to win at the level you want to win.

The Body Language of a Powerful Alpha Leader Session Two (2 hours; 1 minute)

You can spot a powerful and charismatic Alpha Leader the moment he walks into a room, can't you? Why do you think it is so obvious to everyone that he is "the man" without knowing a thing about him?

Learn forty-three (43) of the most-intriguing, SPECIFIC things an Alpha Leader does with his body language, facial expressions, eye movements, and voice qualities in certain situations that transmits his strength, certainty, and confidence. Also, learn what he will NEVER do in other situations because doing so will take away from his powerful presence. Adopt this body language at the appropriate time and become more influential, persuasive, and charismatic to those people around you.

===============================

“I am killing the New York City corporate world with the implementation of my MANformation strategies. Most of all I am empowered because I am aware. Thanks for your unique contribution to the few of us who want more."

Craig Ariano Richmond Hill, NY

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The Specific Influence, Persuasion, Charismatic Skills of an Alpha Leader Session Three (2 hours; 4 minutes)

The Alpha Leader has the amazing ability to get other people to willingly, joyfully, and enthusiastically help him get what he wants in his life. Learn twenty (20) of the most influential, persuasive, and charismatic skills of an Alpha Leader. Adopt these winning skills and you, too, will get people excited to help you get what YOU want.

The Structured Thoughts, Actions, and Lifestyle of a Powerful Alpha Leader Session Four (2 hours; 11 minutes)

Learn thirty-one (31) SPECIFIC ways an Alpha Leader structures his day and gets himself to follow through with what he knows he needs to do to get what he wants in life. Adopt this structure and you'll start leading your own life more effectively-and leading others too.

Goal-Setting Workshop - Alpha Leader-Style Session Five (1 hour; 58 minutes)

An Alpha Leader wins in life at an incredible level because of his outrageous standards, tremendously high expectations, and lofty goals. With what you've learned during the previous four Tele-Seminar sessions, you will NOW be ready to start going for what you REALLY want out of your life-instead of only what you've been settling for in the past. This goal-setting session will make you more assertive, create an Alpha Leader model to aspire toward, and get you to enthusiastically work toward it.

Successfully Integrating the Thoughts and Actions of an Alpha Leader Into Your Lifestyle Session Six (1 hours; 33 minutes)

Learn thirty-seven (37) of the most-effective, SPECIFIC strategies an Alpha Leader executes for CONTINUAL mental, emotional, psychological, and physical growth. When you execute these powerful and charismatic leadership strategies, you will enjoy CONSTANT IMPROVEMENT in your Alpha Leader thoughts and actions.

Your investment is only $99.97

Get the files emailed to you NOW and begin your "MANformation" TODAY!

Click HERE to order

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“I was extremely impressed at all the information Skip La Cour has shared in ‘The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader' and the way in which it is presented! I will tell you that what Skip offers will have you really think about your perceptions of what an ‘Alpha Male' really is, allowing yourself new possibilities to grow and enrich your life, and the lives of those you love. I highly recommend this program to anyone looking to improve upon being the best MAN they can be in all aspects of your life!”

Tom Anthony Roehl Greenfield, WI

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Copyright 2009 Skip La Cour Consulting. All Rights Reserved.

MANformation and Alpha Edge are registered trademarks of Skip La Cour Consulting.

Friday, September 18, 2009

The Alpha Male WELCOMES the Opportunity to Effectively Resolve Disagreements, Conflicts, and Confrontations

By Skip La Cour
Creator of the MANformation Personal Development Program for Men

He understands that disagreements, conflicts, and confrontations are NOT necessarily bad things that should be avoided.

The Alpha male understands that disagreements, conflicts, and confrontations are bound to happen from time to time in the competitive world he lives in. He understands that occasional disagreements, conflicts, and confrontations are just inevitable challenges that will sometimes happen playing in the “game” in life.

The Alpha male does NOT view every single conflict as a negative event. He understands that conflict is oftentimes a MANDATORY step toward getting to the very best solution. He is mentally and emotionally prepared for conflict. The Alpha male WELCOMES the opportunity to effectively resolve conflict when it occurs.

Have you heard of the expression, "It's not personal; it's business"? Well, that's exactly how the Alpha male views the occasional conflicts that occur in his life.

“It's not personal; it's just what sometimes happens when people interact.'”

Now, let's compare the Alpha male's perspective to that of less dominant men and Beta males: Less dominant and Beta males feel they are the “better man” when they successfully avoid disagreements, conflicts, and confrontations.

That is a belief system that must be DESTROYED immediately!

You must understand that are NOT necessarily a "better" person just because you can successfully avoid these challenging situations. If fact, you are probably selling yourself short with other people by doing so.

Disagreements, conflicts, and confrontations are oftentimes important parts of the negotiation process between people that will eventually lead to agreements that can satisfy BOTH parties.

Of course, it may appear that you are getting along well with people when conflict is avoided! At least, it will in the short run it will.

Consider this point:

How hard is it to stay out of other people's way and give them what they want? If you spend a lot of time and energy avoiding disagreements, conflicts, and confrontation like the supposed "good little boy" you were taught to be many years ago, you must realize this:

While you've been "successfully" avoiding conflict and have only gotten in five or so conflicts in the last couple of years, the other person that you need to confront may have gotten into five conflicts BEFORE LUNCH TODAY.

Who do you think is going to be more skilled, confident, and comfortable when you go head-to-head with that person?

The bottom line comes down to this:

Is that mindset and approach REALLY working for you? Be honest! If you are in a place of pain because you are unable to get what you really want in your life, you absolutely must be honest with yourself. If you want to have more and better options in life, you absolutely must be honest with yourself.

The Alpha male is extremely confident and comfortable in the midst of conflict. How does he become so confident and comfortable? The Alpha male gets confident and comfortable by constantly stepping up to the challenge every time he must.

If he THINKS that he must stand up for himself and his position—then he DOES it! He conditions himself to never back down during those challenging times—even if he is uncomfortable. The Alpha male “practices and exercises” this MINDSET until it is firmly integrated into his personality. The Alpha male “practices and exercises” TAKING ACTION until doing so is firmly integrated into his personality.

When you "practice and exercise" anything you do on a continual basis long enough, how can you NOT become good at it? And, once you are good at it, how can you NOT eventually feel more and more confident and comfortable when you are doing it?

The Alpha male understands that the competition for the very best options in life can be FIERCE at times! The Alpha male understand that the “game” is always in “play”—whether he chooses to participate in it or not. He simply understands the competitive nature that's inherent in a select few number of people—especially in other Alpha male leaders.

The Alpha male also understands that other people do NOT always live by his rules, values, beliefs, and standards. He understands that other people may not even believe in them. He never makes the mistake of assuming that they will—or even that they should. And, the Alpha male never takes it personally when other people do NOT play life by his same rules, values, beliefs, and standards.

When the Alpha male does get into conflicts, he doesn't feel the need to talk about them afterward. He doesn't need the "emotional therapy" of talking, justifying, rationalizing, and explaining the conflict to other people. There is no need for him to do so because there is nothing for him to "recover" from because he never viewed any conflict as a "bad" event in the first place.

Make sure that you immediately adopt the perspective of the Alpha male when it comes to disagreements, conflicts, and confrontations. Then, start “practicing and exercising” holding onto this mindset and taking these actions steps every chance you get.

And remember, when it comes to effectively resolving disagreements, conflicts, and confrontations:

If you THINK it—you must DO it!

There's no backing down from this moment forward!

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Learn how to START LEADING and STOP FOLLOWING with Skip La Cour's. . .

"The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader" Audio Seminar Course

Get the MP3 Sound Files and Session Workbook PDF Files Emailed to You NOW and Begin Your "MANformation" TODAY!

Become the MAN you really want to be and get all the options in life that you really want!

This course is 11 hours and 30 minutes of POWERFUL, LIFE-CHANGING Alpha LEADERSHIP strategies.

Get the mp3 sound files and the Session Workbook pdf files emailed to you today.

Your investment is only $99.97

Click HERE for more information

Read What Men Just Like You Have to Say About "The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader" Audio Seminar Course

““Skip La Cour's messages in ‘The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader' are insightful, poignant, and thought provoking. I find myself listening to each session multiple times for fear of missing something and the internal desire to drive home these life-changing concepts. The first session alone was worth the price of admission!”

Greg Phelps, CFP, CLU, AAMS
Las Vegas, NV

====================================

“I am killing the New York City corporate world with the implementation of my MANformation strategies. Most of all I am empowered because I am aware. Thanks for your unique contribution to the few of us who want more."

Craig Ariano
Richmond Hill, NY

====================================

“I was extremely impressed at all the information Skip La Cour has shared in ‘The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader' and the way in which it is presented! I will tell you that what Skip offers will have you really think about your perceptions of what an ‘Alpha Male' really is, allowing yourself new possibilities to grow and enrich your life, and the lives of those you love. I highly recommend this program to anyone looking to improve upon being the best MAN they can be in all aspects of your life!”

Tom Anthony Roehl
Greenfield, WI

====================================

Your investment is only $99.97

Click HERE for more information

====================================

"'The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader' is a powerful course that challenges men to reevaluate both the way they see themselves and the way they relate to other people. It lays out strategies and exercises that empower men to step up, assert themselves, take responsibility, and direct their energies toward pursuing what they really want in life. I highly recommend it to anyone striving to reach that next level."

T. Kareem Powell
Dayton, OH

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“I want to thank you for helping me start my own MANFormation into the powerful Alpha Male that I always dreamed I could be. After years of frustration and being put down by my peers, I realized that my life was that of a beta-male. I lacked the confidence to take charge and be a leader. Enter your Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader seminar. I diligently followed your instructions and practiced them on a consistent basis. Already, my life is turning around for the better—even in the face of harsh challenges. I would never have the mindset nor the drive and confidence to make my life better without you opening the doors to being an Alpha Male. Thank you very much!”

Troy Bennett
Chicago, IL

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"I just turned 50 but I've been dragging along for years this lingering baggage of not being as fit as I would like. Plus, I had lost that powerful male swagger that had served me so well in the past. So, I stepped up to the plate. I made up my mind that these failings of mine had to stop now and signed up for Skip La Cour's ‘The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader' seminar. Now, I'm thinking, feeling and acting like a man 20 years younger, getting strong and lean, and even my business relationships have stepped up big time. This is already becoming one of the best years of my life!”

Greg Prickett
Bakersfield, CA

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"The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader" Audio Seminar Course

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11 hours and 30 minutes!

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“Skip La Cour's messages in ‘The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader’ are insightful, poignant, and thought provoking. I find myself listening to each session multiple times for fear of missing something and the internal desire to drive home these life-changing concepts. The first session alone was worth the price of admission!”

Greg Phelps, CFP, CLU, AAMS
Las Vegas, NV

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"The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader" Audio Seminar Course Outline

Why "Nice Guys" Finish Last
Session One (1 hour; 57 minutes)

The reason why you are not getting what you want in life-at the level you really want-may be in how you are defining the word "nice" in critical situations in your life. Alpha Leaders interpret being "nice" as mature, productive MEN. Conversely, Passive Followers who struggle to get what they want in life still think and act like the obedient little BOYS that they were expected to be when they were young.

Learn seventeen (17) of the most-insightful SPECIFIC differences in the way an Alpha Leader interprets being "nice" and "fair" compared to less-dominant men and Passive Followers. Adopt this Alpha Leader mindset, even the playing field, and FINALLY begin to win at the level you want to win.

The Body Language of a Powerful Alpha Leader
Session Two (2 hours; 1 minute)

You can spot a powerful and charismatic Alpha Leader the moment he walks into a room, can't you? Why do you think it is so obvious to everyone that he is "the man" without knowing a thing about him?

Learn forty-three (43) of the most-intriguing, SPECIFIC things an Alpha Leader does with his body language, facial expressions, eye movements, and voice qualities in certain situations that transmits his strength, certainty, and confidence. Also, learn what he will NEVER do in other situations because doing so will take away from his powerful presence. Adopt this body language at the appropriate time and become more influential, persuasive, and charismatic to those people around you.

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Craig Ariano
Richmond Hill, NY

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The Specific Influence, Persuasion, Charismatic Skills of an Alpha Leader
Session Three (2 hours; 4 minutes)

The Alpha Leader has the amazing ability to get other people to willingly, joyfully, and enthusiastically help him get what he wants in his life. Learn twenty (20) of the most influential, persuasive, and charismatic skills of an Alpha Leader. Adopt these winning skills and you, too, will get people excited to help you get what YOU want.

The Structured Thoughts, Actions, and Lifestyle of a Powerful Alpha Leader
Session Four (2 hours; 11 minutes)

Learn thirty-one (31) SPECIFIC ways an Alpha Leader structures his day and gets himself to follow through with what he knows he needs to do to get what he wants in life. Adopt this structure and you'll start leading your own life more effectively-and leading others too.

Goal-Setting Workshop - Alpha Leader-Style
Session Five (1 hour; 58 minutes)

An Alpha Leader wins in life at an incredible level because of his outrageous standards, tremendously high expectations, and lofty goals. With what you've learned during the previous four Seminar sessions, you will NOW be ready to start going for what you REALLY want out of your life-instead of only what you've been settling for in the past. This goal-setting session will make you more assertive, create an Alpha Leader model to aspire toward, and get you to enthusiastically work toward it.

Successfully Integrating the Thoughts and Actions of an Alpha Leader Into Your Lifestyle
Session Six (1 hours; 33 minutes)

Learn thirty-seven (37) of the most-effective, SPECIFIC strategies an Alpha Leader executes for CONTINUAL mental, emotional, psychological, and physical growth. When you execute these powerful and charismatic leadership strategies, you will enjoy CONSTANT IMPROVEMENT in your Alpha Leader thoughts and actions.

Your investment is only $99.97

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“I was extremely impressed at all the information Skip La Cour has shared in ‘The Mindset and Actions of a Powerful Alpha Male Leader’ and the way in which it is presented! I will tell you that what Skip offers will have you really think about your perceptions of what an ‘Alpha Male’ really is, allowing yourself new possibilities to grow and enrich your life, and the lives of those you love. I highly recommend this program to anyone looking to improve upon being the best MAN they can be in all aspects of your life!”

Tom Anthony Roehl
Greenfield, WI

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